These cards were designed to benefit all children, not just the ones in need of social skills help. There are many ways you can use them in your classroom.
With the Whole Class
Select a card and use it as a discussion prompt. Students can share ideas and stories from their own lives. You could also have students try out some of the suggestions. For example, in the card below, students could share things they find interesting about their classmates. This would be especially effective after doing a Get-to-Know you warm up activity in which students learn more about each other.
In Small Groups
For some children, sharing in a small group feels safer than sharing with the whole class. Small groups, or even partners may help these children to open up. You will want to be sure to establish rules, such as not interrupting or criticizing the speaker. The card below might work better in a small group than with the whole class.
Perhaps you are having a problem with bullying or with students excluding others. Try using a Friendship Card to explore the issue from both sides. With the card below, you could not only use the prompts on the card, but also talk about what constitutes "mean teasing" as opposed to good-natured joshing.
Role Playing is an effective tool because you can use it not only to demonstrate positive behaviors,but also because it helps both the participants and the observers to really feel the emotions associated with the role play, even though it is just pretend. For the card below, you might split your class into pairs and have each pair come up with a solution to role-play. Another interesting twist is to assign some groups to come up with a bad solution. Then you can contrast the feelings and results of the bad solutions and the good ones.
As Writing Prompts
Children who are not comfortable sharing in a group or who feel they are better able to express themselves in writing can benefit from using the cards as writing prompts. Giving (but not requiring) opportunities for students to share their responses is a nice way to extend the activity. Another fun idea would be to use one of the less-personal prompts to create a class book. Each student could contribute a page with a few sentences and an illustration. For example, the prompt might be: I can encourage my friends by....
I hope these suggestions have been helpful. Please feel free to comment if you have more to add or if you would like to share how you have used these cards with your students. For more ideas about how to create a caring classroom, visit the Caring Classroom Link Up at Laura Candler's Cork Board Connections.